Explaining yourself
Damiam Alfaro

Except for professional and academic endeavors, one should forbid oneself to explain the actions one takes. Why? Well, subjectively speaking, we tend to change opinions quite a lot because we learn and rationalize the ramifications and prospects of that or other endeavors. Changing one's mind is frowned upon nowadays, and sometimes it makes sense since it makes you look volatile, hence unpredictable and untrustworthy. Intersubjectively speaking, here we use again the word sonder: no one will ever comprehend the roots of an emotion (which is what makes you take an action) regardless the amount of explanation one provides, and since sonder, they will always have adjuncts to that explanation from their own subjectivity, which will make the explanation invariably erroneous every time; the yield-their erroneous conviction-will most likely bewilder you, hurt you, or just annoy you, or in the best of the cases, disguise you by providing a facade of understanding. One thing you have to make sure of is to trust your present actions and impetuses. Otherwise you will end up with a vast ocean of regret later, that's why one has to create a prospect of what one wants in the future, however here is where one has to be quite realistic and cease any idolization, neurotic thoughts, and fear of mistakes from the past. Why? They influence your new actions, but they shouldn't. "I ain't got my point across 'Til we finally get the cross and pass the point" -Believe What I Say - Kanye West

Sep 17, 2023, 10:36:16 AM